vague descriptors of a couple fics I've lost

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on the (now-defunct?) A/X site Kinetic, there used to be a story called Confrontation. sorry I can't offer details of author or plot, but anyone know where a copy of this story is stashed?

there was another fic I read, not on that site but somewhere else, called the Zebra Wore Fishnets. god help me, I don't even know what *pairing* that was. it used to be on the site Deadly Passions, at least I think it did.

there were two connected RPS fics called Innagaddadavida and Are you Happy Now, DB/JM. those too are lost to me. actually...was this RPS? or did it involve Giles? oh hell, I dont know. now you know why I can't find them.

any help bringing any of these home to roost will make me love you forever.